{"id":14563,"date":"2017-01-02T23:11:58","date_gmt":"2017-01-03T05:11:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/?p=14563"},"modified":"2017-01-02T23:11:58","modified_gmt":"2017-01-03T05:11:58","slug":"10-ways-obliterate-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/2017\/01\/10-ways-obliterate-anxiety.html","title":{"rendered":"10 Ways to Obliterate Anxiety"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That \u2018off\u2019 feeling in your gut when you know you have to meet a deadline, or that obsessive-compulsive slant you slide into when you need to be chilling out \u2013 those are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the many types of anxiety we all feel. There\u2019s PTSD anxiety, and social anxiety. Anxious feelings over our health, our relationships, and our finances. Just in case all those anxious feelings aren\u2019t adequate, there\u2019s even a \u2018generalized anxiety disorder\u2019 described by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adaa.org\/about-adaa\/press-room\/facts-statistics\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">modern psychology<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14564\" src=\"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Joy-copy.jpg\" alt=\"joy-copy\" width=\"845\" height=\"555\" srcset=\"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Joy-copy.jpg 845w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Joy-copy-300x197.jpg 300w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Joy-copy-768x504.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 845px) 100vw, 845px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>With all this angst rolling about, how do we really combat apprehension and unease without turning to pharmaceutical meds, or other drastic measures like pouring hot coffee on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.buzzfeed.com\/erinlarosa\/problems-only-anxious-people-will-understand?utm_term=.dxzrbBaVD#.ty8OGbXp6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">next person<\/a> who says, \u201ceverything will be o.k.\u201d? Anxiety is a state of mind, and though it sounds trite, a state of mind can be changed just as easily as a lightbulb. Using mindfulness techniques and simple life changes, we can obliterate anxiousness in a heartbeat. Here are ten of them:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Start with an Intention<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Intent may sound like a new-age panacea, but the fact is, your intent can free you from feelings of frustration and being out of control, and transform your day into one that offers freedom and resilience instead. Dr. William A. Tiller&#8217;s studies have proven that human consciousness &#8220;changes space.&#8221; Tiller explains that \u201chighly inner self managed people\u201d use intent to change their world.<\/p>\n<p>This is so effective, that in a scientific experiment, people demonstrated mind over matter by creating a specific intention. This intention was then imprinted using a device which was wrapped in aluminum and sent by overnight shipping to a lab <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spiritofmaat.com\/archive\/mar2\/tiller.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">2,000 miles away<\/a>. Let\u2019s say that the intent was to raise the pH of water. If the device was turned on near a jar of water, and the water\u2019s pH was measured, it was found that it had indeed changed. Many more <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mindful.org\/10-mindful-attitudes-decrease-anxiety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">variations<\/a> of this experiment were conducted to prove just how powerful our intent truly is.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>Adopt a Beginner\u2019s Mind<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>An anxious mind can be <a href=\"http:\/\/www.healthyplace.com\/blogs\/anxiety-schmanxiety\/2015\/06\/tired-of-anxiety-adopt-a-beginners-mind\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">exhausting to live with<\/a>. The concept of Beginner\u2019s Mind, called <em>Shoshin<\/em> in Zen Buddhism teaches us to approach life with the wonder and awe of a beginner. If you\u2019re an \u2018expert\u2019 in something, you are more likely to pick it apart and be judgmental, thus creating more feelings of anxiety.<\/p><div class=\"themi-content_11\" id=\"themi-3852796025\"><div id=\"ld-8755-6417\"><\/div><script>(function(w,d,s,i){w.ldAdInit=w.ldAdInit||[];w.ldAdInit.push({slot:9217690065945446,size:[0, 0],id:\"ld-8755-6417\"});if(!d.getElementById(i)){var j=d.createElement(s),p=d.getElementsByTagName(s)[0];j.async=true;j.src=\"https:\/\/cdn2.decide.dev\/_js\/ajs.js\";j.id=i;p.parentNode.insertBefore(j,p);}})(window,document,\"script\",\"ld-ajs\");<\/script><\/div>\n<p>Conversely, racing thoughts that cause an anxious mind are calmed when we see things with fresh eyes, and make space for mistakes. If we aren\u2019t an expert at anything, then we can see each moment as it is happening without expecting perfection. Each moment we begin again, and anxiety simply falls away. There is a Zen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailyzen.com\/journal\/zen-mind-beginners-mind\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">saying<\/a>, <em>&#8220;In the beginner&#8217;s mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert&#8217;s there are few.&#8221;<\/em><\/p><div class=\"themi-content_15\" id=\"themi-2215639944\"><a href=\"https:\/\/mailchi.mp\/themindunleashed\/subscribe\" aria-label=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px.png\" alt=\"\"  srcset=\"https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px.png 1920w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-1536x864.png 1536w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-150x84.png 150w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-696x392.png 696w, https:\/\/themindunleashed.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Brown-and-White-Modern-Digital-Marketing-Course-Promo-Instagram-Post-1920-x-1080-px-1068x601.png 1068w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" width=\"1920\" height=\"1080\"   \/><\/a><\/div>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>Allow All Feelings<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Most emotions are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/the-mindful-self-express\/201303\/why-we-cant-just-get-rid-anxiety-distress\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hard-wired<\/a> into our brains, and can only be managed, not eliminated. We are hard-wired for survival, not happiness, but that doesn\u2019t mean we can\u2019t teach our brains to be happy, too. While we can lessen feelings of fear, anxiousness, envy, worry, or longing with meditation and yoga, and other healing modalities, the best way to combat emotions we don\u2019t want to have, is ironically, to allow them.<\/p>\n<p>Because we were made to pay attention to lingering fears or worries (in order to fight a tiger, or find food in the jungle) we can\u2019t just dismiss those feelings and hope they will go away. If we do, they\u2019ll likely come back stronger, and keep recurring until we give them a physiological outlet. Cry at a good movie, pound a pillow, or talk out some frustrations with a friend. A felt emotion means less anxiety long term.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>Get Moving<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Sometimes moving your body is the best way to change your mind. When we engage in moderate physical activities, like dancing, jogging, mountain climbing, swimming, etc. the brain is engulfed in \u2018happy\u2019 hormones and stress hormones like adrenaline and cortisol are lowered.<\/p>\n<p>Some <a href=\"http:\/\/www.everydayhealth.com\/anxiety\/anxiety-and-exercise.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">studies<\/a> have suggested that exercise is the best anti-anxiety \u2018medication\u2019 around, too. Since anxiety and depression is one of the most prevalent diseases in the modern world, affecting more than 200 million people, it is hopeful that simply taking 30 minutes to an hour daily to get some exercise can help <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3516810\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">drastically curb anxiety<\/a>.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>Give Up Junk Food<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>There is a surprising link that researchers recently uncovered between what we eat and how we feel, and I don\u2019t just mean feeling less anxious about our bodies when we lose a few pounds. Researchers from Columbia University\u2019s department of psychiatry <a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/3939974\/sugar-junk-food-depression\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">found<\/a> that people who ate diets higher on the glycemic index, including those rich in refined grains and added sugar, were associated with greater odds of depression.<\/p>\n<p>There is also <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.mercola.com\/sites\/articles\/archive\/2011\/10\/06\/can-inflammation-in-this-organ-be-at-the-root-of-your-depression.aspx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">evidence<\/a> that poor gut flora which causes gut inflammation can cause anxiety and depression, too. That means if you eat more natural, wholesome fruits, vegetables, nuts and legumes, and take your probiotics, you\u2019re going to feel <em>so much<\/em> better.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong>Create an Attitude of Non-Striving<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Some people who meditate still feel anxious because they haven\u2019t learned the concept of non-striving. Interestingly, the same personality types that are prone to over-achieving in life, are apt to try to over-achieve at mindfulness, missing the point of the exercise.<\/p>\n<p>Creating an attitude of non-striving frees us of the urge to \u2018futurize.\u2019 By placing ourselves constantly in the future, we miss out on the present moment, and all that is beautiful within it. Instead of trying to make things into something we want them to be, we also can just accept them as they are now, and this will cause an immediate sense of <a href=\"http:\/\/stillnessdaily.org\/the-secret-of-non-striving\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">peace and relaxation<\/a>. Non-striving allows the nervous system to rebalance, and passion, creativity, intuition, spontaneity, and harmony to prevail.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong>Develop Deep Inner-Confidence<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>What are two of the biggest creators of anxiety? Our own negative self-talk and the constant comparison with our peers as a social norm. When we develop inner-confidence, we stop looking at things, people, or circumstances <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/jonathan-alpert\/8-ways-to-unleash-your-inner-confidence.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">outside of us<\/a> to create our happiness and peace.<\/p>\n<p>We forget about being perfect, and simply work at being resilient. With inner-confidence, developed by eliminating negative self-talk, we no longer worry about what others think of us, and find pleasure from simply doing what our own internal compass directs us to do.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong>Soothe Your Mind With Music, Laughter, and Nature<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>A viral video (with over 10 million views and counting) that contains a song which reduces anxiety by 65 percent should be ample proof that music can heal an anxious state of mind. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/healthy-lifestyle\/stress-management\/in-depth\/stress-relief\/art-20044456\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Laughter<\/a> can do the same, though, as can <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/health\/archive\/2015\/06\/how-walking-in-nature-prevents-depression\/397172\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">spending time in nature<\/a>. Combine all three and you may never feel anxious again!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Marconi Union - Weightless (Official Video)\" width=\"696\" height=\"392\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/UfcAVejslrU?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><strong>Find Self-Compassion<\/strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Many experts in the mindfulness field now suggest that we forget about trying to develop self-esteem, and instead create self-compassion. If you are tired of saying, \u201cI\u2019m good enough, I\u2019m smart enough, and people like me,\u201d you may be on to something.<\/p>\n<p>Having high self-esteem usually means we have to \u2018perform\u2019 above average, but its logically impossible for every single person on this planet to be better than everyone else at more than just a handful of things. This goal of \u201cself-enhancement\u201d can cause a lot of anxiety because the goal in unattainable. This pressing need to always \u2018be better\u2019 than everyone else also creates a large population of narcissists.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, we can <a href=\"http:\/\/self-compassion.org\/why-we-should-stop-chasing-self-esteem-and-start-developing-self-compassion\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">practice self-compassion<\/a>. This doesn\u2019t mean we relegate ourselves to a life of blandness and stop striving toward any goals, but it does mean that we stop being so damned self-critical and give some of the same compassion to ourselves that we\u2019ve been told to give others. When self-esteem fails, self-compassion gives us a break.<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li><strong>Be Grateful<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Feeling grateful is a science-backed method to reduce anxiety and depression significantly. People who suffer from anxiety often have a negative-bias. That means they are constantly on the look-out for danger. This causes chronic stress and the amygdala in the brain becomes over-sensitive, sometimes even growing larger in size, causing us to be more prone to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ashimaliving.com\/how-gratitude-can-reduce-anxiety-and-depression\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">negative and fearful rumination<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Dopamine, the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward, is usually lower in depressed and anxious people, but gratitude has been shown to increase the levels of dopamine in the brain.<\/p>\n<p>Offering appreciation and gratitude for others also helps free us from self-focus \u2013 a world we create for ourselves that is small and without a network of social support. 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